I truly am not good at dating sites or creating about me sections, I’m on the spectrum, have inattentive adhd, and when I’m not excited by life and art and possibilities, I am potato 👀 please just ask me, I’m keen to answer if given specific things to do so.
I am looking for
— Serious relationship
Preferred age:— 36-45
— 46-59
— 60+
A partner with which to enjoy life and travel the world. A person to make memories and grow alongside.
About me
What are your flaws? (select 5):— Untrusting
— Extrovert
— Not Pet Friendly
— Moody
— Vengeful
— Irritable
— Anti-social
— No Inheritance
— Impulsive
— Scheduled
— Short
— Have kids
— Polygamous
— Not adventurous
— Often tired
— Very close to parents
— Loves shopping
— Hates shopping
— Frivolous
— Greedy
— Shallow
— Self centered
— Liberal
— Fickle
— Indifferent
— Chaotic
— Smart ass
— Spineless
— Superstitious
— Social media user
What can you NOT stand about another person? Select up to 5:— Short Temper
— Jealous
— Possessive
— Judgemental
— Introvert
— Attention Seeking
— Anti Social
— Hypersexual
— Difficulty Communicating
— Rude
— Lazy
— Late Sleeper
— Snore
— Smoker
— Pays the Bill
— Frequent Traveller
— Big Dating History
— Bougie
— Controlling
— Disorganized
— Night Owl
— Party Goer
— In Therapy
— Refuses Therapy
— Don't have kids
— Want kids
— Separated
— Commitment phobic
— Not adventurous
— Passive aggressive
— Social anxiety
— Homebody
— From a small family
— From a large family
— Not close to parents
— Materialistic
— Only shop on sale
— Conspiracy Theorist
— Love politics
— Hate politics
— Bad listener
— Needy
— Absent minded
— Abusive
— Aimless
— Arrogant
— Gossip
— Callous
— Childish
— Hypocritical
— Immature
— Indecisive
— Clumsy
— Organized
— Neat
— Lewd
— Naïve
— Self doubt
— Forgetful
— Irritable
— Bad communicator
— Hates to talk
— Social media user
It was very emotionally and mentally abusive. I lost my autonomy and a lot of friends to show my loyalty to a person that refused to give me basic respects and constantly gaslit and minimized me and my traumas and mental health, even after I sought therapy and meds to become healthy. I helped this relationship fail by letting it start. I allowed myself to be a catalyst for a narcissist hoping that one day they’d love me a fraction as much as they loved themselves. I thought that maybe if I loved them better, they’d give me the empty promises of change and faithfulness.
What are some of the flaws you have been told you have?:I tend to get overwhelmed by life. When I feel overstimulated I just shut down and off into dissociation land. I tend to stay in freeze mode when it comes to doing things that really matter to me. Afraid of change but also mortified of letting people dear to my heart, down. So I tend to unintentionally grow distant when I feel I am being a disappointment. I tend to hyper fixate on things then lose all interest in said thing, My ocd and inattentive adhd love to make me a potato. I’ve been told I lack routine. I can be overly frank/honest. My tone is regularly misunderstood. I take things said to me at face value and get really frustrated when someone doesn’t follow through.
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